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Women Entrepreneurs: Can your Desires Really Make you Money?
Every one of us women wants to enjoy happiness and the freedom to be ourselves, but what if there is even more to it all than you first realized? What if your desires point towards an individual purpose that is meant to meet your financial needs at the same time?
There really are tangible ways to make money from your desires because real talents are attached to your desires. This is as true for you as it is for any other woman. Wouldn’t you love to be able to do what you love to do AND still get paid for it? It’s kind of like the old saying of getting paid to play.
The secret is in discovering how to go about creating this amazing future without sabotaging yourself in the process. Us women are just a little too good at holding ourselves back!
* Opening To Possibility *
Take a moment and open up to the possibility that you could actually get paid for doing something you absolutely love to do. After all, your desire acts as a key to your destiny. It is absolutely possible to make money in the area of your passion.
I ask you to be bold and refuse to listen to any negative comments that would contradict you. When you fully open up to possibility, you are able to begin seeing options that were simply hidden by your resistance.
* Giving Yourself Permission *
The truth is that your desires are in your heart for a purpose. You were meant to use them to impact people in a positive way. It’s time to give yourself permission to use your desires and the gifts attached to them. You are worth the opportunity to express these desires, and others are equally worth receiving this greatness you have to offer.
* Trusting You Have What It Takes *
Many women get tripped up by the need to be perfect first. The irony is that the “perfect gift” already resides in you! It simply needs an open avenue of expression. You automatically grow as you express your greatest desires. I invite you to take a leap of faith and choose to trust you already have what it takes to move forward, NOW!
* Exploring Your Passion *
Now that you’ve opened to possibility, I invite you to really explore what you are most passionate about. What would you REALLY love to do if anything were possible and money were no object at all?
You probably have more than one gift, so focus on the one that means the most. Don’t be surprised if it happens to be the desire or gift that you previously felt was the least possible to accomplish. Keep reminding yourself to be open to all your options so that you don’t block the ideas from coming.
* Committing To Your Passion *
Countless women say, “I don’t know what my passion or purpose is!” That’s often because they don’t allow themselves to dream. They’ve already decided they cannot do it. The choice to live with passion or to give up on your dreams is strictly up to you. However, if it is in your heart, there must be a way to do it!
I invite you to allow yourself to dream about the many ways you could turn your passions into income. You’ll find the most effective way to do this is to “commit” to expressing your desires and then choosing to trust that the best way to express them will come to mind. Don’t worry about “how” you will get there until you know what you want to do!
* Exploring Your Possibilities *
As you explore what you really want to do to create income, start thinking of the positive effects. Consider how you would feel and what your life would look like if you were earning income from your desires. Allow yourself to get excited as you think of the positive effects on your relationships, your children and even your self esteem.
If you still feel unclear about what you could do, begin exploring what other people do to express their desires as a means of income. Investigate the types of businesses that offer the types of service that align with your passion. Set the intention to find a way to do what you really love to do. With the computer and telephone, the world is at your fingertips.
When you open up and explore your options, you give yourself permission to find the answer. Allow yourself to discover all your avenues without shooting the ideas down. After all, an idea that doesn’t appeal to you might just trigger an idea that will.
* Taking Your Next Step *
Once you have a clearer picture on what you’d love to do, I invite you to consider your next step. Ask yourself what needs to happen to take one small step towards your goal.
This step might even be igniting your passion in an area before you recognize how to earn income from it. If you love the arts, begin to pursue the arts. If you love working with children, do fun things with children. Immerse yourself in your passion and then ask yourself how you can turn it into income. You may be surprised at what comes to you.
It is so exciting when you fully recognize you can take your desires a step further into earning income. Can you imagine how much happier you would be if you earned your money based on desire? Consider taking that next step and living out the life of your dreams. It really is possible!
Copyright 2007 Tami M. Szabo
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About the Author
Tami Szabo coaches Business Women and Entrepreneurs who want to grow their lives and businesses using passion and purpose. Learn more and get Free Success Tips for Women on her website at http://www.destinysdoorcoaching.com
David Deangelo And Joseph Matthews Discuss The Art Of Approaching Women
David Deangelo of Double Your Dating recently interviewed Joseph Matthews of Approaching Women in his famous Interviews With Dating Gurus series. Joseph Matthews is a famous dating guru in his own right, and getting these two masterminds of approaching women together has revealed some brilliant insight into the heart of a man, attraction, and the basics of approaching women from the “inner game” outward.
About 8 years ago, Joseph Matthews hit rock bottom. He was unsuccessful with women and dating, and was at a point in his life where he had to either re-define his life, or sign out completely. He chose to re-define his life, and the by-product of that intense redefinition is the Art of Approaching Women.
According to Joseph Matthews, the core skill-set in successful dating is being able to approach and meet women with success. Without that initial success of an approach, nothing else can ever happen. David Deangelo of Double Your Dating certainly agrees, and encourages Joseph Matthews to reveal his secrets to his listeners.
Matthews reveals that most women will form an opinion of you within 60 seconds. Approaching women is the most difficult portion of the dating game, and is also the most feared of the steps of meeting women. David Deangelo asks Matthews what some of his thoughts are about inner game, dating tips to boost a man’s confidence and ability to approach women.
Joseph Matthews names physical appearance as the single biggest hang up that men have when approaching women. Most men feel that faults they find in their own appearance (such as height, a crooked nose, a zit, etc) will be as automatically glaringly obvious to the opposite sex as those faults are to themselves. However, this is not the case. Remember the old adage, “You are your own worst critic”? This is true. These flaws in your physical appearance that are unable to look past more than likely will not even be noticed by a woman you are trying to approach.
The fact is – women and men are attracted to people in very different ways. Men are attracted to women because of their looks. Women, on the other hand, are not attracted to men initially because of looks. Women are not nearly as visual as men are, and women will go for a man who makes them feel good over a man who is classically “good looking” any day. So the moral of the story is, you don’t know what a woman is attracted to physically, so remember that YOU may be hung up on your looks, but SHE is not. The way you make a woman feel inside by being a strong (advocating attraction), confident man is much more valuable than your outer appearance.
The next hindrance that Matthews points out are “attraction” hindrances. Again, these go back to our own perceived weaknesses. Matthews says, and David Deangelo concurs, you either need to change these things, or learn to deal with them. In other words, quit your bitching. If you don’t like it, change it, if you can’t change it, deal with it.
One great example of this is a deaf man. A deaf man can wallow in the fact that he is deaf, or he can learn to work around it by using other avenues of communication, such as instant messages, text messaging, letter writing, lip reading and body language. David Deangelo points out that most men try to hide these “faults” because of ego, but getting creative to work around these problems will inevitable boost your success, confidence and ability to deal with any situation that comes your way. In other words, necessity is the mother of invention, and you need to figure out what is more important, getting women, or hiding behind your contrived excuse.
Another point that Joseph Matthews recommends is knowing what you want in a girl and knowing the warning signs to look for that indicate you need to walk away from a woman. One great dating tip – women who have been sexually abused, women who don’t like children or animals, women who have a bad relationship with their father – all these factors can mean an unstable woman. Be prepared to look for these things in a woman depending on what you want in a woman.
This all boils down to attraction, though. One of the core features of all of David Deangelo’s Double Your Dating programs is attraction – everything is built on creating attraction, maintaining attraction and growing relationships based on primal attraction. Your main goal, therefore, should be to eliminate your own insecurities and thereby build your own attractive qualities, such as confidence, masculinity and independence. Become the kind of man who is self-sustaining and independent of other people.
Taking the lead in the dating interaction is another key point in approaching and dating women. Men who let the woman take the lead are viewed by women as submissive and of lesser status than they are. This is not advocating being domineering and a jerk – but this means that you must be the strong one in the relationship, you initiate, you lead and she WILL follow.
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